HANOVER MONTHLY MEETING • RELIGIOUS SOCIETY OF FRIENDS 43 Lebanon St. • Hanover, N.H. 03755-2513 • (603) 643-4138 Meeting for Worship each Sunday at 10:00 am
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• February 2011 •
Fritz Weiss, Clerk, Betsy Morse, Ass’t Clerk
Rhea McKay, Ministry & Counsel Clerk
Anne Baird, President of Incorporated Trustees
Beata Randall, Treasurer Patricia Higgins, Recording Clerk CONTRIBUTORS PLEASE NOTE
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Regular Events and Times
Singing -- Adults and Children Each Sunday
Meeting for Worship Each Sunday Meeting Room Meeting for Worship Each Thursday Meeting Room Meeting for Business a See Note Below Meeting Room a. Members and attenders are encouraged to attend. Normally it will be the 2nd Sunday of each Month at the Meetinghouse. Check the calendar each month for exceptions. Child care will be available.
b. Contact Judith Pettingell for directions/information at (603)643-2164. Special Meeting Events and Times February 17 (Thursday) – hearing at the NH Statehouse on legislation being introduced to repeal the marriage equality act (contact Al Converse if you wish to attend or attend and testify) February 20 after meeting – Adult Education: Jack Hunter will facilitate a program on references to homosexuality in the Bible February 28 after meeting – Peace and Social Concerns discussion about immigration facilitated by Al Converse March 5,6 – Quarterly Meeting at Hanover (see Penny Wright for details) March 8 (Tuesday) – joint meeting with the Church of Christ in Hanover on immigration. Potluck at 5:30 pm and discussion at 7 pm with Liana Rowe, an activist and UCC pastor from Arizona. (Con- tact Kathleen Shepherd for more details) May 7 - Peter Stettenheim announced that Sandy Stettenheim’s memorial meeting will be held in the early afternoon in the Gathering Room at Kendal, with a reception to follow. There will be opportu- nities for those who wish to contribute with small tasks See Business Meeting Minutes, ANNOUNCEMENTS and SHARING for details on all events.
tion among ourselves and with the outside world)
Meeting for Business February 13, 2011
11-13. Focused worship: Holding our community in
11-16. January minutes were accepted as published
our hearts and seeking to know where we are
Donald Kreis was present at the meeting for
11-14. Present: Joan Ashley, Paula Rossvall, Beata
Randall, Peter Stettenheim, Suzanne Elusorr, Rhea
McKay, Hannah Putnam, Sarah Putnam, Craig Put-
phrase in the second sentence, “over the next
nam, Scot Drysdale, Al Converse, Sarah Monego,
Kathleen Shepherd, Peter Bien, Crysanthi Bien,
11-17. Ministry and Counsel is continuing the pro-
Katie Rawson, Liz Meller, Syd Jarvis, Shawn Dono-
cess instituted last year in preparation of the annual
State of Society report by asking each committee to
Daubenspeck, Penny Wright, Merry Converse, Liz
respond to three queries: How is God working
Meller, Fritz Weiss, clerk, Betsy Morse, acting
Are we being faithful in our labor? How is it
Every Thursday at 7 pm - Mid-week meeting for
Where is God leading us in the coming year?
February 17 (Thursday) – hearing at the NH
Penny Wright facilitated a worship sharing ses-
Statehouse on legislation being introduced to
sion around these queries after noting that the foun-
repeal the marriage equality act (contact Al Con-
dational query of all three is: How fares the truth
verse if you wish to attend or attend and testify)
with thee? Members of Ministry and Counsel took
February 20 after meeting – Adult Education:
notes during the rich worship sharing.
Jack Hunter will facilitate a program on refer-
11-18. House Committee brought forward a “Park-
ing Awareness” concern to inform the meeting about
February 28 after meeting – Peace and Social
the parking situation and receive feedback about
Concerns discussion about immigration facili-
some ideas for improving it — a “mutual listening
session.” Currently we have 14 parking spaces (one
March 5,6 – Quarterly Meeting at Hanover (see
for our house resident, the only one which should
never be used by anyone else; three for Deer Creek
March 8 (Tuesday) – joint meeting with the
Associates, including one for Rhea McKay and one
Church of Christ in Hanover on immigration.
for Ray Chin, all three open after 6 pm on weekdays
Potluck at 5:30 pm and discussion at 7 pm with
and all day on weekends; one for HFM; one for dis-
Liana Rowe, an activist and UCC pastor from
abled drivers; and 8 rented to the Coop, all open
after 5 pm, M-Sat). All spaces, except the resident’s,
are open on Sundays. We also have a fire lane,
May 7 - Peter Stettenheim announced that Sandy
which the committee recently learned is not a
Stettenheim’s memorial meeting will be held in
requirement. The committee is considering making
the early afternoon in the Gathering Room at
two 10-15 minute parking spots in the fire lane, and,
Kendal, with a reception to follow. There will be
starting in May, letting the Coop know that their
opportunities for those who wish to contribute
spaces will no longer be available to them on Satur-
days (as parking is available close by on Saturdays),
Nominating Committee has placed on the fel-
with no annual cost-of-living rate increase, but no
lowship table yellow sheets containing descrip-
rate decrease. Two plans for expanding the parking
tions of what each committee does and pink
lot have been created in the past, but at $30-40,000
sheets listing the various liaison and representa-
to add 8-10 spaces, this does not seem like a good
tive positions we fill (representing communica-
idea. It was felt that the two short-term spots were agood idea. A request was made that the committee
talk with the Coop about any potential hardship
difficulty this issue has presented to the committee.
withdrawing Saturday parking might create. The
discussion ended with a reminder to reduce our need
11-21. Minute: We have received the report from
for parking by trying to avoid the use of cars to get
Finance Committee, which addresses the distribu-
tion of benevolent funds, and we are grateful for
11-19. The Treasurer read the following report from
their work. We understand their recommendations as
they prepare the annual budget for our consideration
After at least four Finance committee meetings
in March. There is discomfort among those present
for discernment with respect to our corporate giving
and in the Finance Committee with these recommen-
– with different people in attendance at those various
committee meetings – we have come to the same
11-22. The Clerk asked the Nominating Committee
sense at every meeting: that the Monthly Meeting
how the process is going. The clerk of Nominating
should support those organizations of which we are
reported that the work is going well in a timely fash-
members and to which we, as a Meeting, have a
ion at this still early stage, including some remark-
able moments when people have come forward to
We have also discerned that, as a Monthly Meet-
ing, we should not take responsibility for directing
11-23. Ministry and Counsel reported on the work of
true benevolent funds; those decisions are more
its subgroup on worship groups. The position of a
properly the responsibility of individuals and fami-
liaison for the Kendal worship group was previously
lies. We would like to encourage members and
approved by the meeting, and the committee is now
attenders to privately discern their own benevolent
ready to present for approval a description of that
priorities and to please personally direct funds to
position. Kesaya Noda has volunteered to take on
those organizations. This is preferable for the
this position now. It will be a nominated position in
Monthly Meeting because, as a Monthly Meeting,
the meeting starting June 1. The committee plans to
we have repeatedly been unable to come to a sense
do more research on the other two worship groups
of the Meeting as to which organizations should be
under our care, Lancaster and Strafford, which may
meet only during the summer, before asking for liai-
However, that discernment does not seem to find
approval with the Monthly Meeting as a whole. We
Worship Group Liaison
therefore respectfully ask that the Monthly Meeting
Proposed Position for HFM
either accept our budget with respect to the benevo-
February 2011
lent funds or create a new mechanism for discerning
The person from HFM who is nominated and
approved to serve as a worship group liaison will
A recommendation that will be included in our
have the opportunity for making connections with
budget as we will present it next month is a
one of the worship groups under the care of HFM
and in doing so, will help enrich, expand, and nur-
Monthly Meeting by members and attenders by 10%
to encourage individuals and families to direct those
In this role, the liaison will visit a designated wor-
funds for charitable giving as they are led.
ship group and get to know the contact person or
11-20. There followed a discussion of reactions to
clerk of the worship group; when and where the
the report, which ranged from support for the pro-
group meets; and the usual number of attendees.
posal to reduce our corporate giving by 10% to con-
He/she will pursue with the contact person and/or
cern that other Quaker organizations we have
the whole group any current concerns and how HFM
supported in the past appreciate and depend on our
might nurture or provide more care to the spiritual
corporate gifts. There was appreciation expressed
well being of the group. He/she will also schedule
for the care in the wording of the report and for the
an annual meeting with the worship group and inter-ested persons from HFM to explore the group’s needs and concerns.
Through written correspondence, the liaison will
the right and freedom to legally marry, and we
remind the worship group of the available options
emphatically oppose efforts to repeal or modify this
for worshiping with HFM and will give HFM infor-
mation about the worship group's activities and
We sign below with joyful affirming support for
schedule. If applicable, the liaison will inform the
those who have made and wish to make such a life-
group of the transportation options for attending
HFM. This is especially applicable to our Kendal
11-27. Minute: Friends approved having our clerk,
Fritz Weiss, sign the above statement for Hanover
The liaison will serve under the care of M&C and
Monthly Meeting as approved by the meeting for
will check in with M&C quarterly or more often as
needed. The liaison will work with the M&C wor-
11-28. The clerk acknowledged a thank-you letter
from Sarah Putnam thanking the meeting for send-
ing her to a weekend workshop on Spiritual
11-24. Minute: We received and approved the above
description of a worship group liaison for worship
11-29. Penny Wright reported on plans for Quarterly
Meeting, on Saturday night and Sunday morning,
11-25. Minute: We approved Kessaya Noda’s
March 5 and 6. The Saturday night program will be
appointment to the position of worship group liaison
on Global Climate Change, when we will discuss
for the Kendal worship group until May 31.
and respond to queries in facilitated groups. It is
11-26. The New Hampshire Religious Coalition for
hoped that young people (middle school and up) will
Marriage Equality has asked if we would endorse
take the opportunity to come. The program is drawn
from a FWCC program, which is being presented
widely. Paula Rossvall volunteered to coordinate
We, the undersigned leaders of New Hampshire
childcare if it is needed. Friends should get in touch
faith communities, declare our commitment to mar-
with Penny Wright if they are able to provide hospi-
riage, our own and others'. Among the most funda-
tality — a bed Saturday night and breakfast Sunday
mental of human rights are the rights to love and
marry the one we love and to form a family. Our
We closed with a moment of silent worship, joy-
faith has called us and continues to call us to sup-
fully anticipating meeting again on Sunday, March
port, comfort, counsel, and for those who so choose,
officiate for gay and lesbian couples as they partici-
Betsy Morse, acting recording clerk
pate in the sacred and legal institution of marriage.
We acknowledge that debate and discussion con-
House Committee Minutes
tinue in many of our religious communities regard-
October 18, 2010
ing the theological and liturgical issues involved. We
Attendees: Craig Putnam, Mary Linares, Christine
draw on our many faith traditions, however, to arrive
at a common conviction: we are resolved that the
State may not favor the beliefs of one religious
We got an update on the cost of the repairs,
group over another to deny any individuals their fun-
which we are very pleased with. The dry rot at the
damental rights. The state does not compel faith
front of the building has been removed and new
leaders to officiate for same gender marriages; at the
clapboards have been installed to replace the old,
same time the state should not prevent faith leaders
broken ones. Several other areas of dry rot have
from doing so if they choose. In fact, for many of us,
been addressed, the ceiling in the main entrance has
our religious convictions dictate that we officiate for
been removed and replaced with stained pine, and
gay and lesbian couples who wish to marry, and to
the storage closet has been vented. The repairs look
deny us this opportunity interferes with our free
There are a few more areas that the Committee
As leaders of communities of faith we support
thinks should be addressed while we’re working on
the current law that gives gay and lesbian couples
getting all of the dry rot repaired. These areas
include repairing the door frame on the entrance to
Most of the outdoor work was completed; we
the building that is by the library and back stairwell,
will still need to rake again. Any helpers are wel-
installing larger rain diverters on the front porch
roof, caulking around most of the windows, and the
The picnic tables are falling apart and beyond
replacement of the cabinet, counter top, and sink in
repair. Roger Soderburg offered to come disassem-
ble them and remove the rotting wood.
One of the main reasons that we have had so
The meeting closed with a moment of silence,
many problems with dry rot (other than at the front
agreeing to meet again on November 15 at 7pm.
of the building, where the problem was caused by a
broken clapboard) is that we have a lot of backsplashwhen it rains. The committee discussed the areas in
House Committee Meeting
which professional rain abatement advice is needed
November 15, 2010
– by the main entrance there is a large rock that
Attendees: Christine Ellis, Mary Linares, Hannah
water hits as it is coming off the roof, this splashes
Putnam, Craig Putnam, Bob White, Dick Powell,
up and caused damage to the wood on the corner of
the house; by the propane tanks water falls off the
roof heavily and the area rarely gets enough sun to
The minutes from the October meeting were
dry completely, this has led to the growth of algae on
read and approved with a minor addition.
the clapboards, by the back entrance the gutters do
Mary reported that Mark Nylund has installed
not collect all of the water when it rains and a large
larger rain diverters over the front door, repaired the
amount falls on to the decking that makes up the
door frame by the resident’s entrance, and caulked
step, this splashes up and had led to rot around the
around the windows that were installed last year.
door frame. We decided that it makes most sense to
The carpets in the fellowship room and the fire-
hire some gutter experts to advise us as to what can/
place room were professionally cleaned by Don
should be done to improve drainage in each area.
Henry for $150.00. The results look great! There are
The suggestion was made that the carpets in the
a few areas of spot cleaning in the meeting room and
fellowship room be professionally cleaned. The
back hallway that we intend to ask him to address
Meeting does have a steam cleaner that is used on a
also. The tentative conclusion of the committee is
monthly basis, but the thought was that a profes-
that we should have the carpets professionally
sional cleaner might get more of the raisins and
cleaned every 6 months. We will continue to ask
brownie crumbs off the rug. We decided to have it
Eulalia to use the Meeting’s steam cleaner during the
done professionally at least once to see if there is a
months that we don’t have professional cleaning
Work day was successful, though Hannah was
We discussed the remaining work projects that
not able to be with us to detail what was completed
need to be addressed in the Meeting House: gutter
and what is still left to be done. The knot weed
installation, replacing the sink, counter, & cabinet
removal project went well; it appears that the inva-
around the sink in the resident’s apartment and
sion is not as extensive as we feared. We discussed
improving the overhead lighting in the resident’s
options for keeping on top of it with out the use of
chemicals. It was decided that next spring/summer
Mark Nylund is coming on November 16 to give
we will ask for volunteers to spend a week at a time
us a quote on the repairs to the resident kitchen.
monitoring the situation and digging up new shoots
We have also asked Doug Weyer to quote the
as they appear. Between several members of the
meeting, the hope is that we’ll be able to keep it
Hannah will ask Mark for a recommendation for
There is a packet of cut knot weed wrapped up in
Craig will ask Hugh for a recommendation on
plastic on the grass by the high school driveway that
needs to be taken to the dump. Mary Linares agreed
We decided to contact Willy Loomis, the electri-
cian the Meeting uses, to quote installation of
overhead lighting in the resident’s apartment.
The fire alarm system was inspected. A third
This project may not be addressed before the
floor smoke detector has a “bad sounder” that should
be replaced; another smoke detector in the resident’s
The subcommittee of Ministry & Council,
apartment is not working at all. Hannah will contact
House Committee, and Finance Committee met
the fire alarm company to have them come replace/
regarding the use of the Meeting House and the
attendant parking issues. There will be a full report
Either the Stettenheim’s or Judith Pettingell will
in the Ministry & Council minutes, but the report we
take the rain barrel before we get much further into
The biggest challenge seems to be when mem-
Mary Linares, the convener of the committee to
bers of the Meeting use the space without prop-
this point, will be leaving town on January 1, 2011.
erly reserving the space with the resident
House Committee will need a new convener for at
least 3 to 4 months. We will determine who the new
Some people did not know that the Library is
convener will be at our next meeting.
never reserved for outside groups and is often
We closed with silence, agreeing to meet next on
available for Meeting groups. Groups wishing to
use the space should first reserve it through the
We do have space for a guest to stay that is uti-
House Committee Minutes
lized occasionally; we plan to continue to offer
December 20, 2010 Attendees: Christine Ellis, Mary Linares, Hannah
While there is rarely difficulty with members of
the meeting finding parking at the Meeting
House during the day, we would like to remind
people that we do have a parking space that is
thought it would be a good idea to cover how the
reserved at all times for members of the Meeting
Meeting handles snow. We have a standing contract
to use when they are at the Meeting House. It is
for plowing and sanding the Meeting House parking
signed, but the sign is small. We will consider
lot with Joe Landry. He comes when it snows or
ways to make the space more visible to those
when called, provides sand and salt for our use. Han-
wishing to use it. We have also decided that the
nah shovels and sands the steps and paths around the
next time a parking space becomes available we
building. Friends are encouraged to shovel and sand
will convert it to a Meeting parking space.
any paths or steps that need it, should they arrive and
The conclusion that we heard was that there is no
reason to dramatically change our parking policy
We discussed the appropriate method for storing
at this time. The House Committee decided that
the lawn mower for the winter. There were several
we will no longer offer Saturday parking to Co-
approaches suggested, Hannah agreed to call Joe’s
op parking renters as of May 2011 in an effort to
Equipment to ask them for their advice.
ensure available parking for groups using the
We are still waiting to get quotes on the renova-
We heard the Ministry and Council minute that
There is still some outdoor work to be done. We
came out of the Use of the Meeting House working
will have another work day on November 28 from
8am to 10am. Hannah will post this on the listserv
Friends appreciate the work of the working
and Mary will announce it at the rise of meeting.
group but expressed their desire for more clar-
A request was made to replace the long tables
ity about how to address our perception of the
with round tables. We decided that we need time to
seriousness of the parking situation. We ask
research new/different types of tables (round,smaller rectangles) before we can authorize a pur-
the House Committee to address our concern
about how limited parking available to Friends
limits Friends’ access to the Meeting House
town. Hugh agreed to convene the January meeting
We felt that we began to address some of the
We closed with silence, agreeing to meet again
requests with the ideas we generated in November.
Other thoughts that we had for addressing the con-
First Day School Committee Minutes
Moving the placement of the standing announce-
January 16, 2011
ment regarding how to reserve space. It is cur-
Present: Stacie Colwell - clerk, Phebe McCosker,
rently located in the “Announcements” section,
Lisa Vallejo Sorensen, Goyo Amaro, Patricia Hig-
but we think it might be more effective if it were
gins - recorder, Linda Johanson - teacher, Shawn
located directly beneath the “Calendar” section.
Donovan visiting from Ministry and Counsel.
Writing an informative “nuts and bolts to
Absent: Mary Linares, Sheilagh Smith, Joel
Hanover Friends Meeting” article in the newslet-
ter that explains which spaces are available for
Stacie opened our meeting by reminding us of
outside & Meeting group use, how to reserve
the steadfast work and love of Sandy Stettenheim,
whose life ended earlier this week. She led us in a
Including a similar “nuts and bolts” section in a
moment of silence, remembrance, and deep appreci-
Welcome to Hanover Friends Meeting brochure.
Possibly creating an online calendar / usage
Old business 1. Review the minutes from last meeting and
We plan to keep the next parking space that
comes up for rent and sign it as a Hanover
- plans for middle schooler meetings and
We will move forward with re-signing the cur-
New business
rent Meeting parking space to make it more visi-
1. Discuss timing and process for submitting min-
ble. We will also suggest to renters that they
might like a name plate for their space at this
time, and we will replace broken and incorrect
3. Ideas for honoring Sandy Stettenheim, eg. straw-
signs. Hannah will contact the sign maker.
Hannah will also contact the Hanover Fire
4. Discuss questions from Ministry and Counsel for
Department to learn about the fire lane regula-
the preparation of the State of Society report.
tions & whether we can turn it into a 5 minute
Old Business:
1. We approved the minutes from December 19,
2010, with appreciation for Patty's clarity and
We borrowed round tables from the Black Cen-
2. Linda said she would speak with the Putnams
ter for an event and there was a widespread positive
about the May retreat proposed. We acknowl-
response. We will continue to consider what our
edged that the minutes were published in the
table needs are. We were also reminded that the
newsletter before the Putnams were approached.
Meeting might have oak boards set aside for another
We will discuss the procedures later today.
table like the one in the Fellowship room.
Hugh will call Wirth’s Seamless Gutters to set
Linda requested a small committee to work with
up a meeting and assessment of our needs.
her on logistics for the March middle school retreat.
Mary Linares, our current convener, is leaving
Decisions need to be made regarding whether AMC
for several months of travel on January 1st. We dis-
or DOC cabin, location, and a good date for middle
cussed having a rotating convener while she is out of
schoolers. For the committee, Stacie will serve, and
will ask Joel to do so as well. If Joel is unable to
lum, for example, learning the Lord's Prayer and
some psalms. She noted that these have been impor-
The younger group continues to work on their
chairs for the Meeting and requests help from
We confirmed our desire to continue the 4 year
grown-ups. Linda proposed helping the children cre-
cycle, with particular interest in paralleling the
ate cubbies for their things. She is beginning to think
Adult Education program. We confirmed the guiding
about how best to present the chairs to the Meeting.
principles formulated several years ago, that
The next project will likely be the creation of bat
although we as a group of adults/parents are unlikely
houses to help their recovery in the area. Lastly,
to ever be of one mind on the exact content of FDS
Linda will present to Stacie her request for prior-
curriculum, we agree that respect for myriad spiri-
tual traditions is necessary. Quakers derive from aChristian tradition and our children will benefit from
New Business:
1. We discussed a method for getting the minutes
At our meeting in February, we will look more
into the newsletter in a timely manner while
closely at the Old Testament. Please come with your
allowing for corrections and additions. The fol-
Shawn visited our committee as a member of
a. The recorder will send within one week the
Ministry and Counsel in order to ask us a few ques-
draft minutes to the committee members present via
tions in preparation for writing the State of Society.
He found our discussion of the history of our work
b. The subject line will read “FDS draft mins-
so interesting that he ceded his time on the agenda in
respond by ___” followed by the date one week
We agreed that Linda should continue to speak
c. All committee members present are asked to
monthly at the rise of Meeting to continue to build
review the draft minutes and respond to the recorder
this bridge with the adults and encourage them to
within that week with either approval or corrections/
sign up on the bulletin board in the Fellowship
d. The recorder will follow-up with the commit-
We closed with a moment of silence, intending
tee members who were present but have not
to meet again on Sunday, February 13 at 8:30am.
e. If corrections/additions of a substantive nature
are indicated, a second round of approval will be
Adult Education Committee 16 January, 2011
f. When the draft minutes are approved, the
The January meeting of the Adult Education began
recorder will send them as final minutes to commit-
at 8:45 with a period of silent worship.
tee members and to the newsletter to be published. Present: Betsy Morse, clerk, Joan Ashley, Hope
Because the newsletter is normally published on the
Rennie, Cathy Miles-Grant and Dulany Bennett.
Tuesday following Business Meeting, which is nor-
Regrets: Anne Crewe and Jack Hunter.
mally on the second Sunday of each month, FDS
We discussed possible changes in meeting times.
will usually have 3 weeks for all this to happen.
Evening times are a possibility. We will discuss
2. We discussed curriculum development! The 'big
these possibilities with all members.
picture' has been a 4 year cycle: Old Testament,
Past and Future Events
New Testament, Quaker History and Quaker
Peter Bien spoke on prophecy to an appreciative
Linda reported that she has not only been attend-
ing Quaker teaching conferences, but has been asked
Betsy Morse will present on her trip to Nicaragua
to present at an upcoming retreat for teachers.
Phebe shared her hope that we can include some
Jack Hunter will present on homosexuality in the
traditionally Christian elements in our FDS curricu-
Hebrew Bible on 20 February. On 20 March and 17
April we will present panels on the historical and
reserve space in the meeting house for a group or
contemporary functions of the Queries, We will ask
function. She will confirm your reservation and
Ministry and Council to join in. On 20 March we
will present the history of the Queries. On 15 May
Dulany Bennett will present some thoughts on
Electronic Directory Copies: Electronic copies
Joseph and lead a discussion. On 30 January Adult
of the Hanover Monthly Meeting Directory are
Education will lead a discussion on the working
paper for Chapter One of Faith and Practice.
beata@hitchcock.org. Paper copies, with a request
Exploring Quakerism will be presented again in the
for a $2 contribution to the treasurer, are available in
spring beginning on Wednesday the 2nd of March
from 7-9 pm and run through 15 April. Hope will
Submission of Committee Reports and Newslet-
put up a sign, reserve the room, and publicize the
ter Announcements: Committee clerks and oth-
course, which was previously presented in winter
ers who make reports or announcements in Meeting
and spring and fall of '09' and Fall '10.
for Business or at the end of Meeting for Worshipare urged to give written copies to the recording
We discussed the financial needs of our
clerk or the newsletter editor at that time or to send
committee. We need to see who needs financial help
him/her electronic copies within 24 hours. This will
with Pendle Hill pamphlets for the Exploring
help to ensure that the communications are recorded
Quakerism course. Our committee needs to review
correctly and included in the newsletter.
our budget and see what our annual needs are. Information on the Faith and Practice Revision
Penny Wright will meet with our clerk, Betsy
Committee’s work: Website is www.neym.org/
Morse, to review questions for the State of the
fandp/ or call NEYM or request copies form NEYM
office: 901 Pleasant Street, Worcester, MA 06102-
We will meet again on 1 February at the
Meetinghouse at 6 pm, or 13 February at 8:45 if
Kendal Worship Group: Kendal Worship Group
Dulany isn't able to make the 1st date due to surgery.
extends an invitation for all members and attenders to worship with them any Sunday at 10AM in the
Chalmers Room at Kendal. Contact Jeanne Robin-son with any questions. ANNOUNCEMENTS Donations Needed Repeated Announcements
The house committee is looking for the following items as donations:
The Meeting Calendar
a used Cuisinart or other type of food processor
Friends are reminded that the resident caretaker,
Hannah Putnam, is the sole keeper of the calen- dar for reserving a room or scheduling an event in Strafford Meeting for Worship
the Meeting House. Please speak to her directly
Quaker meeting for worship the 2nd and 4th
regarding any proposed internal or external use of
Sundays. We will be seated at 10 AM in a private
the house so she can ensure there is no duplication of
home in the Strafford Upper Village. Please contact
reservations and that correct communications
Hilary Linehan for directions and questions 802-
regarding the ground rules occurs. Hanover Friends
Meeting requests donations for use of our property
which goes into the general fund for maintenance
Meals for Friends
and operations of the building. Hannah can provide
Meals for Friends (MfF), a program under the
each potential user a booklet of information about
care of Hanover Monthly Meeting, will be two years
the use of our House and the donation schedule.
old in April. MfF provides three evening meals a
Reservation of Meeting Rooms: Be certain to call
week for members and attenders who are temporar-
Hannah [(603) 643-4138] or leave a note in the “res-
ily unable to cook for themselves. Meals are pro-
ident” mailbox in the room next to the kitchen to
vided Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays for up to
a month. Assistance can be extended, if there is fur-
ther need. There will be openings on the roster for a
regular, once-a-month cook, and substitute cooks are
always needed. If you are interested in our MfF pro-
Leaders and Committee Members Needed
Interested in getting involved in Hanover
Friends Meeting even more? Now is your chance!
Notice of Newsletter Editor’s Plan to Retire
The Nominating Committee is meeting weekly to
I am willing to serve until May 30th as newslet-
consider committee memberships. We follow a
ter editor. After my four years as editor, it is time for
spirit-led process, considering the needs of the com-
another person to take over and reinvigorate the
mittee and the gifts and talents of the individuals in
our meeting. We do seek your help as we may not be
The newsletter plays an important role in the
aware of your talents, calling, interests. Please con-
meeting. Please consider taking up the task and
sider this and let us know if you have an interest in
making the nominating committee aware of your
serving on a committee of the meeting. Information
willingness to serve. It would be a shame to lay it
about what the various committees do, when they
down in the event that no other or group is found
meet, etc., is available in the Meeting House on the
table in the Fellowship Hall. If you have questions
or would like additional information, please contact
Drivers Needed!
any of the members of the Nominating Committee:
The Pastoral Care Committee would like to set
Kathleen Shepherd (clerk), Scot Drysdale, Richard
up an e-mail list of people who would be willing to
offer Meeting members/attenders a ride to Meeting
events, doctor or physical therapy appointments,errands etc. You would receive a group e-mail mes-
Immigration and Migrants
sage when someone is in need of transportation and
Who are our new neighbors? What are the risks?
would respond only if you were able to help in that
What is their experience and what is our Quaker
particular situation. Please e-mail sarahmon-
ego@yahoo.com if you would be willing to be on
Two upcoming events may deepen our under-
standing and help us to think together about a
Quaker response to the increasing numbers of
New Announcements Woolman Hill Financial Management Course
Sunday, Feb 27, 12:00-1:00: Peace and Social
Concerns committee hosts a general discussion of
Rightly Ordered Financial Management for
this topic. Al Converse will facilitate the discussion. Friends Meetings and Organizations
Some related reading materials will be circulated a
February 25-27, 2011
week in advance via the listserv. Also, please look at
the folders kindly prepared by Sarah Putnam on the
P&SC shelf in the library. They may be signed out if
How can thoughtful financial management sup-
port Friends’ testimonies of integrity and simplicity?
Tuesday, March 8, at the Church of Christ at
From fundraising challenges to simply having an
Dartmouth (the White Church on campus), P&SC is
open conversation about how finances can better
co-hosting the visit of Rev. Liana Rowe. together
express Quaker values, we all labor to find rightly-
with several Upper Valley congregations.
ordered ways of working together on financial mat-
Rev Liana Rowe has been advocating for ratio-
ters. We urge meetings and organizations to encour-
nal, humane immigration reform for ten years. A
age and support the attendance of their treasurers,
2011 recipient of the City of Phoenix Martin Luther
accountants, bookkeepers, finance, and fundraising
King, Jr Living the Dream Award, Rev Rowe sits on
the Board of Directors for Humane Borders, a
humanitarian organization that maintains water sta-tions in remote desert regions of Southern Arizona. She has also been active with Somos America/WeAre America Coalition in advocating for human andcivil rights in Arizona. Rev Rowe lives in NorthPhoenix with her husband of 29 years and three chil-dren, ages 16, 14, and 12, all well-trained, experi-enced volunteers in the maintenance of HumaneBorders water stations.
Soup and bread potluck at the White Church
begins at 6:00, and Rev. Rowe will speak at 7:00. Please let Kathleen know what you will bring. kkshepherd447@gmail.com or 802 649-5152.
Readers Invited: Readers are invited to share information with one another about births, deaths, illnesses and recovery, joys, sorrows, celebrations, and special needs within or related to Hanover Friends Meeting. If you have contributed during the time of sharing immediately after Meeting for Wor- ship, consider sharing with the wider community through this newsletter. If the note is about another person, please have the person’s permission to pub- lish the notice when this is a practical alternative.
You are also invited to share spiritual messages,
inspiration, or concerns, poems, articles, or photo-graphs with the community for publication in theNewsletter; send them to the editor. E-Mail submis-sions to efeustel@hughes.net are preferred. U.S. Mail may be sent directly to:
SharingC/O Editor. Hanover Friends Newsletter385 River RoadPlainfield, NH 03781-5036
On Breaking the Silence
Before you speak, ask yourself: Is it necessary?
Is it true? Does it improve on the silence?
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« Je me souhaite absence. Que la vie ne me ramène point à el e. M’incorporer au silence. Me dépouil er des superflus de l’être. Devenir paral èle . Avancée dans le distinct. Supposition. Lent dégagement de l’incertitude. Laisser aux autres l’apparence. Me faire creux. Profondeur. Existence. Réel voulu. » Louis Calaferte, Les Fontaines silencieuses , Editions Gal imard, 2005
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